Kids, this is the story of how I met your mother, and it was all thanks to INDYtoday.
Ok, so maybe that’s not exactly how the 2000s sitcom went, but if Ted Mosby had consulted us for date night ideas, we could’ve shaved the show down to two seasons (and saved his kids a lot of time). Regardless, whether you’ve met “the one” or are hoping to impress someone new, we’ve got 20+ local date night ideas that are legen — wait for it — dary.
For the ones who want a night out on the town
- Take a paint and sip class | Let the pros at Painting with a Twist or Wine & Canvas guide you through your own painting while you sip on wine tastings.
- Go dancing | Try your hand at ballroom, swing, or Latin dancing with lessons from the crew at Le Danse Ballroom Club.
- Have a laugh | Go to a comedy show or get in front of the mic for a date you’ll be sure to laugh about later.
- Jazz things up | If your date likes jazz, take them to this cozy music club serving American fare with Cajun-Creole accents.
- See a Candlelight Concert | Enjoy a romantic, one-of-a-kind concert performed under candlelight in iconic venues. Check the schedule for different themed concerts.
If the way to their heart is through their stomach
- Tinker with a menu to remember | Tinker Street, an intimate 21+ restaurant, was named one of the top 100 date night restaurants in America, according to Yelp.
- Livin’ la Vida local | Wine + dine them at this Four Diamond award-winning restaurant that offers a four or six-course tasting menu.
- Try a cooking class | Testing their cooking skills before committing? Take a date night cooking class at Sur La Table at Clay Terrace.
58 miles of the White River are undergoing one of the country’s largest river redevelopment plans to make it cleaner and more recreationally friendly.
Photo by @gkinast via Visit Indy
If you love the great outdoors
- Go on a bike ride | Whether you decide to take a spin on the Cultural Trail, the Monon, or the B&O, all the trails have perfect areas to stop for a drink or a bite with your date.
- Get on the water | Looking for an adventure? Go to Frank’s Livery for a water excursion with kayaks, canoes, or paddle boards. Plus, you don’t have to worry about getting a ride — Frank’s offers shuttle service.
- Go on a picnic | Plenty of parks around Indy are perfect for a picnic. One of our favorites is Highland Park, thanks to the skyline sunset view.
- Take a hike | Grab your hiking boots and get some fresh air while you get to know your date a little more.
For the ones who like to play games (just not with your heart)
- Tappers Arcade Bar | Show off your classic gaming skills at this free-play arcade and pinball destination with 60+ games to choose from.
- Pins | This is a perfect first-date spot with duckpin bowling + other games. Plus, you’re right next door to The Garage Food Hall where you can get a bite after working up an appetite.
- 16-Bit | Looking for a fun atmosphere to break the ice? Grab a drink and play a game at this downtown bar and arcade.
If you’re really hoping that it works out
- Try pilates | Challenge yourselves to a fun 45-minute session at Era Pilates.
- Go climbing | Maybe they’ll fall for you at North Mass Boulder. Take a climbing instruction class and hang out at Top Out Cafe afterwards.
- Play pickleball | Try your hand at this trending sport by taking your date to any of these pickleball venues.

Trying something new is a great to connect with your special someone.
Photo by @erapilates_indy
If you want an “old fashioned” date
- Visit a speakeasy | We’ll let you in on a little secret: There are several speakeasies around Indy you can take your date to. You may even impress them with insider knowledge.
- See a movie at the drive-in | Make a classic movie date more cuddly + comfortable at Tibb’s Drive-In, Indy’s only drive-in theater.
- Have a diner date | Go back in time by grabbing dinner at a retro diner around Indy.

Tibbs Drive-In was a filming location for “Walter,” which was produced by three IU Bloomington grads.
Photo by @violetshort
If you’re on a budget
- Take a hike | Lace up + enjoy some fresh air with an active day in Eagle Creek Park. There’s plenty to explore with 16+ miles of trails — just don’t forget to bring along snacks and a Circle City kombucha for a picnic break by the water. Admission is just $6 for Marion County residents or $7 for out-of-county residents.
- Get into the swing of things | For just $14, you and your boo can get some swing dancing lessons from Naptown Stomp at the Fountain Square Theatre Building. Beginner lessons take place every second and fourth Friday from 7:30 to 8:30 p.m., followed by several hours of live music.
- Play the game of love | Hit up First Fridays at The Murphy Art Center in Fountain Square from 7 to 11 p.m. and play some classic arcade games at PinVault for $5 per person. Or if you’re feeling sporty, you can play a combo football-bowling game at Fowling Warehouse. It’s just $12 per person for unlimited open play, and you can bring your own food for fuel.
If you wanna show off by knowing all the hottest events in town
- Shameless plug: Sign up for our daily newsletter, where we call out our top picks of things to do around town. Your date doesn’t have to know we’re behind it, you can take all the credit.
- Stay up-to-date on the coolest local events around Indy with our events page.
What did we miss? If you know a perfect date spot that’s not on the list, guide us in the right direction.